Learning Life Skills during Lockdown

Folks,

Positivity and Negativity related to the recent Lockdown : a different perspective……

Raised as a single child, I was brought up in the suburbs without a neighborhood. That means, I had no friends beyond school.

All these happened for 19 years until the late nineties.

I was made to focus on creative activities, book reading, gardening and learning other life skills (though I never could learn stitching..forget knitting!). Sometimes even during normal weekends, 24 hours was not enough for me to finish exploring. Those were the days when one could afford to sleep beneath the sky and watch the cosmos whole night. I am glad Russian ‘Sputniks’, small comets, changing positions of the stars and faces on the Moon are also a part of those beautiful memories.

Further, I was blessed to be in a joint family. So I had my grandparents to narrate real-life stories of their era, and some of mythology and philosophy. Sitting beside them during ‘Mantra Paath’ was made mandatory for me. I couldn’t pick all the ‘Slokaas’..but yes, it did sooth my mind and inspired my soul to a great extent!! The mornings and evenings were very blissful.

So I suggest let’s focus only on positivity and creativity for now. Counselling, Medications, etc. – yes of course, if it’s required. There should be NO stigma attached to it. The brain is after all, an organ!!! But primarily, let’s first try out things on a positive note!

So pls STOP watching sessions of how to deal with depression, anxiety, loneliness, etc. UNLESS you are “really” in need of it❗A person who has practically gone through these phases knows it is no joke or timepass.

Let’s not tell kids that we are grateful to them for their sitting quietly in the living room now. What big deal is that? Let’s gradually teach them LIFE SKILLS and how to pick up varied HOBBIES /ARTS. Space is limited in a flat to play physically. But there’s no limit for positive imaginations. Tell them how a Soldier survives in a bunker for months. Tell them how a Doctor keeps operating for hours continuously during emergencies. Tell them about our Farmers working in fields bearing heat, rain & cold. There are many such examples from history as well as daily lives of the common man. Inspire the kids to be up and doing, instead of pampering them. Affection is a completely different thing.

I have seen 8-YO urban kids making bread-toast and omlette at breakfast, serving themselves and the whole family of four. Whereas in the same period, I see 20-YO youngsters idling in the living-room with smartphones, and seeking a glass of water until it reaches them!! Last year, there was also an instance where a 14-YO teenage at a relative’s place, was managing himself and his studies in a strictly disciplined way (as taught in his hostel), though he knew he was losing his father to cancer and his mother had to be beside in the hospital!!!!

Therefore, it basically depends on what and how we TRAIN kids.

Let’s use the Lockdown phase(s) to correct or initiate ourselves vis-a-vis this special training chapter for kids and youngsters. That was the exact message conveyed by a premier institute in the country to all its students, when the Lockdown-21 began.

Despite the physical restrictions now, let’s stretch our minds like our forefathers did. Virtual connectivity is just another blessing in today’s age. Let not our answer to boredom end there. It’s only a medium to channelize our thoughts and zeal. So we need to do more, and definitely can do more.

Regards..🙏🏼

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